tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2977044224939777967.post5832443636766659531..comments2023-11-18T18:14:45.871-05:00Comments on Blunoz Random Ramblings: Tattle Taleblunozhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02917109513028096262noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2977044224939777967.post-38087424750278744372008-05-20T16:31:00.000-04:002008-05-20T16:31:00.000-04:00This is easy... does the infraction he's witnessin...This is easy... does the infraction he's witnessing have the potential to harm anyone -- the person committing the crime or those nearest them? If so, then he should say something. If no physical or emotional harm will be done, skip the tattle. It's not his place and it risks a reputation which may make it tough to make and keep friends.<BR/><BR/>As for ES watching YS -- he needs to speak up when YS is knowingly breaking house rules, plain and simple. To not do so should be as serious an offense as the original broken rule.<BR/><BR/>Paper airplanes aren't allowed to be constructed in the bathroom? I had a science teacher who encouraged us to make the best paper airplanes we could and used it to explain aerodynamics and principles of flight. <BR/><BR/>I think teachers should be handing out awards for students reporting when they see weapons or bullying, not arts & crafts.pdxboxerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14941727294483977349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2977044224939777967.post-39758258788018262522008-05-15T03:55:00.000-04:002008-05-15T03:55:00.000-04:00I emailed ES's teacher to find out if there was mo...I emailed ES's teacher to find out if there was more to this story than just "they were making paper airplanes". She replied with:<BR/><BR/>ES reported a problem in the restroom to Mrs. M. who said he was in order for an Atta Boy Award because these particular boys have been causing problems in the restroom. The children were making paper airplanes and playing in the restroom, which is against school rules. Since ES reported the problem right away, the teacher was able to catch the boys in the act. I know we try not to promote tattling, but ES reported this problem to Mrs. M. in a very polite and respectful manner. I assure you that ES does not have a reputation as a tattle-tale. In fact, it's quite the opposite. Since Mrs. M knows that he is usually quiet around adults he does not know, she realized that there probably was a genuine problem that should be checked out. <BR/><BR/>So yes, ES deserves that Atta Boy for recognizing a problem and telling the correct person about the problem. Tell your son he did a good job! ;-)Sageyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15237148177842028666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2977044224939777967.post-12807067392064957632008-05-14T13:01:00.000-04:002008-05-14T13:01:00.000-04:00so my "snitchly" comment has been successfully tru...so my "snitchly" comment has been successfully trumped by Kohlberg's Stages of Moral Development!E.P.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11668386564276915529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2977044224939777967.post-81928740004036656272008-05-14T12:45:00.000-04:002008-05-14T12:45:00.000-04:00Reminds me of Kohlberg's Stages of Moral Developme...Reminds me of <A HREF="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kohlberg's_stages_of_moral_development" REL="nofollow">Kohlberg's Stages of Moral Development</A>. It's difficult to even have a discussion with elementary kids about the "gray" areas between right and wrong. It has been my experience that until we reach 12 or even later (and some never get there) our acts are either right or wrong, turn the fool in or ignore it.<BR/><BR/>I would want a child to report egregious infractions, but how do we, even as adults, know when it crosses the line into a reportable offense? If the theft you are reporting in NYC is less than $1000, the cops don't even take a report on it. Here in small town mid-America, a bunch of CD's stolen from a car makes the paper. So, is it social context, moral uprighteousness, or both that help us make these decisions? (And now my brain hurts...)Ruthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13937467429727409159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2977044224939777967.post-91362980532953531862008-05-14T06:34:00.000-04:002008-05-14T06:34:00.000-04:00hmmmm you must be in some sort of comment counting...hmmmm you must be in some sort of comment counting contest. The first comment on your own post is your own!<BR/><BR/>Seriously though. I don't know the right tactic here. I don't think they can tell the difference between serious and not serious at that age. He probably erred on the right side. Just call him "Snitchly"E.P.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11668386564276915529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2977044224939777967.post-27128013682856051092008-05-14T02:17:00.000-04:002008-05-14T02:17:00.000-04:00LW just brought up another good point. Why is it ...LW just brought up another good point. Why is it ES will tell on a classmate making a paper airplane in the restroom, but he won't tell us when his younger brother is doing something wrong? Usually when YB is doing something wrong, the result is ES yelling at him or hitting him. What's going on there???blunozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02917109513028096262noreply@blogger.com